Thursday, April 4, 2013

Welcome to the World, Ayris Allyn!

On Thursday, February 7, 2013, the world became a little more beautiful with the arrival of our sweet daughter, Ayris Allyn Murty!  Ayris (pronounced air-ris) was born at 2:15pm (after 19 hours of labor). She weighed 8 lbs. 3 oz. and measured 21 inches in length!  We are so blessed and in love with our beautiful little girl!

The day before Ayris was born I had a scheduled doctor's appointment.  As I was meeting with Dr. Lin and discussing what are options were had Ayris not arrived by her due date (Feb. 9), Dr. Lin stripped my membranes; however, I was unaware she had done this until I saw her during labor.  After my doctor's appointment, I met up with some of my girlfriends for dinner.  While siting at dinner, my back began to hurt, but I just thought that the chairs we were sitting in were uncomfortable.  As I was driving home from dinner, I began to realize that maybe what I thought were Braxton Hicks contractions and back pains were actually the real-deal.  As soon as I got home, Josh and I started timing them, and I quickly realized that I was actually in labor!

Josh and I headed to St. Jude around 11pm, where my mom, dad, and sister met up with us.  I was in the hospital for about 3 hours when the nurses came in and told me they were sending me home.  I was so confused!  I was in pain, but they wouldn't allow me to stay.  They explained that since I wasn't progressing (cervix dilating), and because the doctor on call wouldn't induce me, I had to go home.  The nurse told me before I left that although I was having contractions, that this was something that could go on for days!  I was shocked when she said this because I knew that there was no way I would be able to endure this pain for DAYS!  Josh and I went home and within two hours, I was back at the hospital.  Since I had dilated to 4, the nurses finally admitted me.

Shortly after arriving at the hospital I received an epidural.  I knew the doctors changed schedules at 7am, so I was looking forward to seeing my doctor and hopefully having my water broken.  However, Dr. Lin had two back-to-back C-sections, so I didn't get to see her until 12:00pm.  She came in, broke my water, and told me that we needed to try and have the baby before 1:00pm because she was scheduled to be in another C-section surgery at that time.  Well, 1:00 came and went, but this baby wasn't ready to make an appearance yet.  I was dilated to an 8, so the doctor decided to give me Pitocin to help me progress.  Thank goodness I had already received my epidural as I experienced Pitocin with Logan and it was awful!  Dr. Lin was finished with her surgery around 1:45pm so she came in to check me and told me it was time to push!

I began pushing but it was different than when I pushed with Logan.  While pushing with Logan, I remember I couldn't feel a thing.  This time around, I was able to feel a lot of pressure.  In addition, I was so exhausted from being in labor and lack of sleep.  Although I only pushed about 30 mins. (similar to the amount of time I pushed with Logan), I had so little energy.  I was so afraid I wasn't going to be able to finish.  However, at 2:15pm I gave my last push, and our sweet girl came out to meet us!  The second they placed her on my chest, I couldn't believe how big and beautiful she was.  Thank you, God, for blessing us with such a wonderful gift and miracle.


Trying to relax during labor.


My devoted Dad, Mom, and Sis!  They arrived at the hospital with us and remained by my side during the entire 19 hours!  Thanks so much, guys.  I love you all so much.


Daddy and Mommy anxiously awaiting the arrival of our baby girl!


My dad and mom--Poppa and Mimi


Holding Ayris for the first time--I'll never forget this moment as tears of joy ran down my cheeks.


Daddy and Mommy are so in love!


That's right--8 pounds, 13 ounces!




Getting her first bath.


Daddy's little girl


Poppa and his Peaches--my dad's nickname for Ayris


Titi was one of the first to hold our baby girl.


Ayris and her Tia


Mimi loves her sweet Ayris.


One of the most exciting moments was introducing big brother, Logan to his little sister, Ayris--such a sweet memory!


Grandma and Ayris.  Thanks so much, Grandma, for taking care of Logan while his little sister was being born.


I love this picture of Daddy, Ayris, and Logan--all so happy!


Auntie Ang couldn't wait to hold her.


Uncle Mike and Ayris


Thanks for coming to the hospital to visit us, Marcie!


My dear friend, Brooke (due in April), was so excited to meet her!


Auntie Em and Ayris


Auntie Jo, thanks so much for making the drive up to meet our sweet girl.


Ayris is the first to be born of this new generation of babies amongst my besties!  I can't wait to meet the other two little ones!


Her going-home outfit! It says "Little Sister" on it.


Leaving the hospital with one more member to add to our family.

Bestie Baby Bumps

I can't begin to tell you how amazing it is to be pregnant with your best friends!  It truly is a fun experience!  I've been best friends with Ang and Jo for 18 years now--wow, that sounds crazy!  Each of us has been there for each other during our past pregnancies, but to know that this next generation of little ones will only be months apart (just like their mamas) is truly incredible! We are beyond thrilled and excited! 


Bestie Baby Bumps--you can hardly tell that Ang and Jo are pregnant here, but I'm about ready to pop!


Joelle is due in August with a girl and Ang is due in June with a boy!

Friday, January 25, 2013

My Baby Shower

My mom, Angela, and Joelle decided to throw me a baby shower at Mimi's Cafe in Yorba Linda.  It was so much fun!  These ladies are so good to me.  They sure do know how to put on a creative and fun shower.  Thanks so much, Mom, Ang, and Jo--I love all of you so much and feel so blessed to have you in my life!


The beautiful cake my mom ordered from Frost My Cake!


For the shower favors, Ang decided to bake individualized berry pies.  They were adorable and oh-so delicious!  Unfortunately, my dear friend, Emily, couldn't make it to the shower.  However, she still wanted to help out.  She is super crafty and knows how obsessed I am with cute girl stuff.  Therefore, instead of a shower game, my guests made headbands for my baby girl!  I can't tell you adorable this idea is.  Now, I've got a huge collection of headbands for my little girl to wear all year round.  Thanks so much, Em!  I love you, girl.


My girls--Jo and Ang 


Since we're all preggers, we attempted to take a belly shot.  Obviously, these girls have a lot more growing to do!


Here's one of the adorable headbands!


Love these girls!


It was so great to catch up with my best friend, Jamie!


My sis and mom.  Thanks, Mom, for throwing me a wonderful shower!


I was so glad that Miss. Ellie was able to attend.  She is such a doll and made tons of beautiful headbands for our baby girl!


Me and my mother-in-law (Alison).  Thanks so much for coming and helping out.


One of the most creative gifts I received was a package of personalized onesies!  This onesie is in reference to a Warren G. rap song, but the words have been changed to reflect Stroller Strides!  I love it, Oria.  Thanks so much, Mama!


My cousin Dakota and Tia.


My cousin Alexis and Tia Linda.


Some of my Stroller Strides gals - Oria, Raina, Anne, Brooke, Ali, Mindy, and Ang.  These moms are awesome and I feel so fortunate to have them in my life.  Love you, Mamas!


Shannon, Kim, and Holly.

There were lots of other gal pals that came out to my shower, but some left before pictures were taken.  Thanks so much, ladies, for coming to my shower and bringing all the beautiful gifts.  This little girl is already so loved and blessed.

Christmas Eve & Christmas Day

Every Christmas Eve we get together with my aunts, uncles, and cousins.  This year my Tia Linda hosted.  We ate lots of yummy food, played fun games, and had a great time just hanging out together! Poor Logan had a fever on Christmas Eve, but he was such a happy boy anyway.


Here he is hanging out with one of his favorite people--Poppa!


During the evening, Santa showed up and surprised us all!  Logan was so excited to see him.




Immediately telling Santa what he would like for Christmas.


Logan opening his presents from his great aunts and great uncles.



Our annual Cousin picture.  I can't believe how big everyone is getting!


On Christmas morning Josh and I woke up before Logan.  Poor little guy woke up with a cold, but Daddy and Mommy were so excited to see his reactions to the Christmas presents that Santa brought.  After we opened gifts as a family, we headed over to my parents' house for our annual Christmas breakfast.  My mom made Josh's favorite dish--Chilequiles.  They were delicious!  After breakfast, we sat around and opened presents.  Logan sure got a lot goodies from his Poppa, Mimi, and Tia.  They sure do love our little guy!


Poppa got Logan a construction toy that he can sit on and scoop up dirt with.  He absolutely loved it!


Opening up all his gifts!


After opening presents, we were spent!  Poppa, Daddy, and Logan decided to relax and watch some TV.


Christmas Morning Videos.  My memory card ran out during the filming of Christmas morning (of course!), so we had to separate into two videos.  Enjoy!


Christmas lights in Brea

We have never gone to see the Christmas lights in Brea, so this year we decided to make a night of it with the Bridgfords.  We ate some dinner in downtown Brea, grabbed some hot chocolate from Starbucks, and headed over to view the Christmas lights!  They were absolutely amazing.  I can't believe how invested these neighborhoods are in putting on a beautiful light show!


It was absolutely freezing, so we had the kiddos bundled up in jackets and blankets.


Lillie and Logan insisted on sitting with one another, of course!  Logan was too busy enjoying his first ever hot chocolate to smile for the camera.




One of the houses had fake snow shooting out from a machine from its roof.  The kids had so much fun jumping around and playing in the "snow".

Christmas Celebration with Josh's Family

Every other year Josh's mom and step-dad take turns celebrating Christmas here and in Texas with Jim's daughter's family.  This year was they were in Texas for Christmas, so we got together to celebrate our Christmas as a family before they left.  We met in Oceanside at a yummy burger joint very close to Granddad's house.  Logan had an absolute blast hanging out with his cousins--Alex and Connor.  Oh how he loves them!


Granddad, the Hastys, Gina (Josh's cousin) and Bobby, the Caceres family, and us!


Logan was so busy playing with his toys that he didn't want to be disrupted for a picture.